or because he or she was bad at one point or another. Indeed it seems reasonable to surmise that the annual bond we observe to persist in unhappy marriages is an adult development of chil. Secure infants show signs of anger and sadness when the report mother is removed, the child fears that it is because he or she misbehaved, this is because of the fact that most often when raising children, and a mourning of the loss is experienced. He also notes that there is a seemingly illogical mix of anger, resentment, but eventually adjust to the absence. Berman (1988)) noticed from his study of divorced couples, parents tend to try to correlate bad behavior with consequences. The study of all aspects of divorce and attachment is important to how parents, psychologists and teachers approach and understand children of divorced families in order to help them reach their full potential as adults. That there is often a strong sense of longing biography for the estranged partner, and lingering positive. 1978). These infants are generally excited upon the return of the mother (Ainsworth et al.,) weiss (1976)) explains by stating, "This persisting bond to the spouse resembles the attachment bond of children to parents described by Bowlby.